Fandoms can be toxic as hell. I am ARMY. For those of you who don’t know, that is what BTS calls their fan base. I had heard about the toxicity before I became a fan of BTS, but holy crap. There is a part of ARMY that is toxic as hell! From using AI to pretend to be their girlfriends, to literally attempting to break into Jungkook’s house. I feel sorry for BTS that they have this pressure to maintain a certain image. While there are those of us who feel they should be able to date openly, there are toxic ARMY that somehow feel they have priority over their personal lives. It makes me sad for BTS. They’re in their 30s, or creeping up on it. They should be allowed to live life.
I am jealous of my husband’s weight loss. Y’all. He worked hard. I’m not trying to take away from his accomplishment. I’m proud of him. That doesn’t change the fact that deep inside, I’m jealous that he was able to lose close to 100 lbs. I’ve tried and tried and diabetes has kept me at the same weight. I should be glad that I don’t continue to gain. For those of you who don’t know, insulin tends to make you gain weight and makes it damn near impossible to lose weight.
I’m beginning to have career burnout. I think we all experience it in our lifetime. I don’t know how to respond to mine just yet. Do I look for a different job in an entirely different career field? Do I suck it up and hope it passes? I have to think about my age. I am at that age where if I am to change careers, it has to be now. I’m not necessarily unhappy with where I am as much as I am unhappy doing what I do. I love my coworkers. I love the vibe. I even love my boss. But, I am not sure paralegal work is fulfilling me right now. 17 years is a long time to do something.
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