Often, we talk about the red flags in a relationship, but what about the green flags? What green flags make a person more attractive? Here are a few green flags that make a person more attractive to me.
Patience. I am a hot mess. Truth. Any person that can exhibit patience with me is definitely attractive.
Present. A person who is always present in the moment is attractive. What does it mean to be present in the moment? Their undivided attention is on you and what the both of you are doing.
Forgiveness. Nothing is more attractive to me than a person that can engage in forgiveness. I make mistakes. A lot of mistakes. I am bipolar II and if I don’t take my medications on time, I lose control of my thoughts. Sometimes, I say things I don’t mean. Sometimes, I do things that I don’t mean. So, a person that accepts me, understands me and my limitations, and practices forgiveness is highly attractive.
Taking Responsibility. A person that can admit they were wrong is totally attractive. Someone that takes responsibility for the actions is definitely attractive.
Empathetic. A person who is able to put themselves in you shoes and empathize with you is super attractive.
Communicator. A person that engages in communication is definitely attractive. Someone who is willing to discuss problems with you rather than shut down.
What about you? What are your green flags?
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