@justrojie asks, “Do you has fomo (fear of missing out) or jomo (joy of missing out)?”
I’m definitely a JOMO girl. According to AI:
What does the Joy of Missing Out look like?
- Enjoying solitude: Spending a Friday night at home reading, gaming, or watching your favorite anime without wishing you were somewhere else.
- Saying no without guilt: Turning down an invitation because you’d rather rest or spend time doing something you love.
- Disconnecting from social media: Not feeling obligated to keep up with everyone’s vacations, accomplishments, or activities.
- Choosing quality over quantity: Preferring meaningful experiences with a few close friends over constantly attending social gatherings.
- Protecting your peace: Recognizing that not every conversation, argument, or social event deserves your energy.
- Embracing a slower lifestyle: Finding happiness in ordinary moments rather than constantly searching for the next exciting thing.
- Being comfortable with yourself: No longer needing outside validation to feel that your life is interesting or worthwhile.
This is me 100%. I don’t feel like I have to be in the thick of things. I definitely don’t get anxiety over missing events. I’m perfectly okay missing things for my own sanity.
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