A good life? That’s very subjective, isn’t it? It has such a different meaning to everyone. For me, there are three things that speak out more than others.
FORGIVENESS
I struggle with this one, but I think it is probably the most important on my list. Without forgiveness, you won’t have peace. Without peace, do you really have a “good life?” There is a saying that when you fail to forgive someone, you’re failing to forgive yourself, too. I’ve never really understood that until recently. When you harbor such negative feelings toward someone, you’re not at peace with yourself.
LOVE
Whether it’s receiving or giving, love is an important building block to a “good life.” Love helps us grow into better people. Sure, it can kick you while you’re down. But, it can also raise you up. Whether it is the love of a person, the love of friends, the love of pets, or the love of a hobby, love brings happiness which is essential to a good life. But, it also brings pain and sadness, which unfortunately, is also a part of a good life. You can’t appreciate life without loss.
HONESTY
Whether it is being honest with others, or honest with yourself, honesty is another important building block to a “good life.” Just like love, it is a pendulum, unfortunately. Dishonesty can tear apart friends and family. But, honesty can do the same. However, if you live honestly, you can live at peace with yourself knowing you do your best to lead a honest life.
I think, between these three things, one can lead a pretty “good life.” Each one presents its own set of obstacles and challenges. I don’t think anyone can be 100% forgiving, loving, or honest. To me, a “good life” is a constant evolution. It is moving toward inner peace and being a good person. The more you forgive yourself, the more you love yourself, and the more honest you are with yourself, you’ll be better capable of handling those bumps along the way.
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